Why Life’s Last Wishes was born?
When my father was diagnosed with cancer, the doctors gave him two years to live. He was in his early 60s, full of life and plans for the future, trying to come to terms with his diagnosis. But just eight days later, he was gone. He died still wanting to live, asking where his time had gone.
Losing him so suddenly was devastating. But what made that already unbearable time even harder was the uncertainty.
We didn’t know what his wishes were.
Did he want to be buried or cremated? Would he have wanted a church service? What kind of music would he have chosen? Flowers or no flowers?
I remember sitting with my siblings at midnight the night before his funeral—four grieving children trying to agree on music for the service, wondering, Would this have been what Dad wanted?
And it didn’t stop there. His will—where was it? Bank accounts—who did he bank with? Social media—what did he want done with those? Years later, so many questions remain unanswered.
The grief was already overwhelming, but having to make these decisions without guidance made it almost unbearable.
A Promise That Sparked a Movement
After my father died, I made a vow: I would never put my loved ones in that position. I would make sure my final wishes were clear so they wouldn’t have to guess, argue, or stress during their time of loss.
Then, a few years later, I faced my own mortality. I was in Nepal during a devastating earthquake, trapped in moments where I truly thought I was going to die—several times. As I faced what felt like the end, one thought kept repeating in my mind: I need to finish Life’s Last Wishes.
I vowed that if I survived, I would complete this project—not just for my own loved ones, but so others could benefit from the peace, clarity, and love this gift provides.
That’s how Life’s Last Wishes was born.
It’s not just about writing things down. It’s about love. It’s about giving your family clarity and peace of mind during one of the hardest times of their lives. And it’s about honouring your life and the legacy you want to leave behind.
Why It Matters
Life’s Last Wishes is more than a platform—it’s the single greatest gift you can give your loved ones.
It lifts the burden from their shoulders by providing them with clear guidance during a time of grief. It creates opportunities for self-reflection, letting you share your values, life lessons, and hopes for the future. And it opens the door to meaningful conversations with the people you care about most—conversations about wishes, legacies, and life itself.
Don't wait for the unexpected. Take the first step today and create your Life’s Last Wishes.
After all, when is too early to start planning for something you know one day is going to happen, but could happen tomorrow?
Because love means taking care of the people who matter most.
Who am I? Well, that’s a big question. Let me start here: I’m a writer, an adventurer, and a storyteller. I’m someone who believes deeply in the power of love, connection, and leaving behind a legacy that truly reflects who we are.
Embarking on my career journey as a Magician’s Assistant and then a clown, I embraced the art of bringing joy and wonder to others. These early experiences ignited a passion for connecting with people — a passion that has been the cornerstone of my diverse career.
With over 25 years in senior executive roles, including CEO and Deputy CEO positions in Local Government across Queensland and New South Wales, I honed my leadership skills and deepened my commitment to community service.
Today, aside from Life's Last Wishes, which I consider my legacy project, I channel my extensive experience into my consulting practice, offering services in Leadership Solutions and Workplace Wellbeing and inspiring change and creating impact through keynotes, facilitation and transformation programs. You can read more about those here.
Beyond this work, I am an adventurer at heart. I’ve trekked some of the world’s most incredible trails—from the Kokoda Track in Papua New Guinea to Everest Base Camp in Nepal, from the Camino de Santiago in Spain to the Kumano Kodo in Japan. These journeys have taught me about resilience, connection, and the importance of honouring our stories.
But my greatest treasures aren’t the mountains I’ve climbed—they are my family and friends. They are my anchor, my greatest joy, and the reason I do what I do.
Life’s Last Wishes isn’t just a platform to document your wishes. It’s an act of love. It’s a chance to reflect on your life, to share your values and lessons, and to ensure your loved ones are never left guessing. It’s a gift of clarity, connection, and peace during what will likely be one of the hardest times in their lives.
"Let your life be your message." Mahatma Gandhi
I hope Life’s Last Wishes inspires you to reflect on your own life and legacy, to have those meaningful conversations with your loved ones, and to give them the greatest gift of all: the peace of knowing your wishes are honoured.
With love,
